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Showing posts from December, 2012

Bougie Girl on Juice Radio

The Challenge of Dealing with Crazy, Nasty, Disrespectful In-laws...Join Juice Radio on Sunday, December 30th at 9:00PM EST, special guests Alaina Alexander aka "Bougie Girl", creator of "Bougie Girl Radio" and relationship blogger Ana Loiselle, founder and relationship counselor at the New Mexico Relationship Center

We will take a discuss how to deal with crazy in-laws from hell. What do you do if your spouse does not intervene? How to keep your marriage intact despite challenging in-laws. We will also look at ways to keep the love and passion alive in your marriage!! 
Tune in, join the conversation....BE THERE!!!
Call in - 646-716-6358 Listen to the show

Freewriting Series: Uphill

Sometimes, uphill is the only direction available to us...

The Return Of The Loser Spirit Series

The Return Of The Loser Spirit... Party Plates by Bougie Girl Apparel Last year, I blogged about a phenomenon known as the Loser Spirit. I discussed the many ways in which the Loser Spirit sabotages our careers, relationships, families, and our souls. I received very positive feedback from the series. There are 17 steps to Overcoming the Loser Spirit. I blogged about a few of them and then, the project just seemed to fall off of a cliff.

I was in a state of processing a lot the changes going on in my life at the time. After I processed said changes and how the Loser Spirit had adversely been affecting my life. It became less of a priority for me to write about.

But, now that my life is in a much better place.I want to explore the rest of the steps.

Down By The Banks...

Down by the banks...

Facebook Hiatus

Yesterday, I deactivated my Facebook account.
Over the past few months, I have spent an inordinate amount of time on Facebook.

In fact, I would daresay that at its peak, I was Facebooking for a combined total of 4 hours a day.

Ironically,  the more time I spent interacting with folks on Facebook...the emptier my life felt.

For the next 30 days, I am going to be Facebook free.

I anticipate that the first week or so of my self-imposed Facebook exile will be hell on earth.

However, in the end it will be worth it.

Freewriting Series: Where Do We Go From Here?

I don't know where this road will lead....but, it's certainly been a fun ride!

Freewriting Series: It's Not Too Late To Pick Up The Holiday Spirit

The Holiday Spirit is within all of us even if we do not actively celebrate Christmas/Chanukuah/Kwanza.

Freewriting Series: Private Property.. No Trespassing

There are some things in which I will not discuss on my blog, podcast, or anywhere else. These things are too sacred to share with the world at large.

Freewriting Series: Dead Things

This past weekend I took a nature walk and stumbled upon this dead plant. 
 I am not sure of the exact nomenclature of this plant. 
However, I do know that it's dead and more than likely nothing short of an absolute miracle is going to bring it back to life.