You Can't Make Me Settle... by Bougie Girl Apparel
When you are unmarried or even divorced for awhile. Well-meaning friends and family try to cajole you into accepting anything that comes your way, just so that you will not be alone.
They surmise that your seemingly terminal singlehood must mean that you are desperate to be in a relationship with someone...anyone.
You politely explain that whilst you do not expect perfection from a significant other, honesty and fidelity are still required traits.
Alas, your heartfelt oratory has not wavered their determination to see you paired off to anyone with a heartbeat.
They insist on using the less than stellar parts of their marriages/relationship as examples on the virtues of patiently overlooking certain indiscretions. Unless of course, the "indiscretion" in question confronts you via social media and/or on your doorstep.