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Well-Meaning Liberal

Well-Meaning Liberal
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I mean well. Seriously, I do. I just want everyone to be accorded with the proper amount of respect no matter what their race, religion, national origins, skin color, weight, age, and/or mental capacity.

Is that too much ask? 

Admittedly, there are times when I go overboard with this lovely concept and invariably end up alienating the people whom I am trying to protect. 

It never occurs to me that my well-meaning protection of these people is hurting them in the long run. I make excuses for their inability to get ahead in the world. I point out that their past history of being unfairly oppressed will always prevent them from ever enjoying the type of success that I take for granted.

I set the bar  low for these people and then over praise them for every little gain that they make. I am fostering delusion and entitlement within them but, I cannot seem to stop myself.


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