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Catalystic Tendencies


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 I am the person whom inspires others to make that change which they  have always talked about but, could never quite manage. I project immense beams of love and light. I use my catalystic powers to create a warm womb-like space which gives them a safe place to change and grow. 

Sometimes, it only takes 15 minute pep talk to change the course of someone's life. In other instances, it has taken a few years for the effects of my catalystic tendencies to make a difference.

My work is everything to me. Yet, there have been times in which my catalystic tendencies back-fired and the recipient short-circuited from the high dosage of light and love.

Those folks ended up in a much worse position before they met me. 

Still, those failures aside, I do feel as though the world needs more catalysts.  

We bring others to their highest potential and then we fade into the ether.


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