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Warning: I Will Hijack Your Youth...
Warning: I Will Hijack Your Youth... by Bougie Girl Apparel

You have spent your entirely young life trying to appease me in some form or fashion. I have not made it easy for you to do so. In fact, I have done everything in my power to ensure that you never feel secure within our relationship. I draw you in and then just as quickly push you away. I like watching you scramble around trying to find the quickest way back into my good graces. The truth is that I do not have any good graces to speak of whatsoever.

You have yet to figure out that our relationship is just a game for me. On our wedding day, I will not have thoughts of our life together but, of how long it will take me to train your replacement.
By my estimation, it will take us a few years to grow our family. During this time, I will become the man of your dreams so, much so that you will fail to notice that I am slowly distancing myself from our family. Out of the blue, I will file for divorce right before our 15 year anniversary. It will come from left field and there will be nothing that you can do to "win" me back.

I have in essence "hijacked" your dreams and your youth. Do I feel an ounce of remorse for wasting 15 years of your life and saddling you with 3 kids?

Well, of course not.


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